One should learn to love themselves first to be able to love someone else. A motivation to overcome insecurities and to be able to say that I am good enough. It happens many times when we really are fond of something or someone but at the same time we're afraid of losing them and therefore we retreat and hold ourselves because never having it seems better than fear of losing it. Many a time we admire someone and feel that they awesome company, but then our apprehensions that I'm not that amazing or maybe that person doesn't find us interesting. We stop then and there whereas what was needed an effort as often the vibes we get from other person is true and there is a high possibility that both of us could have clicked.. 

So we should try not to have low self-esteem and this self-esteem comes only comes when we're confident in our skin and ready to face the world because we are what we are. Additionally never let overthinking hold you back, don't retreat without giving it a try. It's always better to do something than not to do something.

Live while you’re still young

Like as many people you can but

Love yourself before all of them

Wonder when you like someone

You only see their perfections

They feel like Gods best creation

We pull away from this temptation

Then all our flaws just come alive

Screaming loud you could never vibe

You retreat before you even begin

Rejecting yourself though they haven’t

Stand for yourself you have world at your side

Throw away that pillow enough you’ve cried

Put on your shoes tie your laces tight

Music on, run till the sun shines bright

Sometimes you may run from dusk till dawn

Make sure you always come back home

Look around yourself there are many more

It’s high time that you start to explore

Take a step let them know they are not alone

All your stress and anxieties, please put’em on hold

A lifetime on this earth is just a speck of time

It might be too late before you even realize 

I say you stop that war I love the way you are

Your eyes your lips your scars and those stretch marks

So smile put that head up high and change the laws

Even when you fall for someone who loves your flaws

Look, you’re perfect, loving yourself is so easy

Start right now, love yourself and let loose free.

Being confident enough to face the world in every situation could make us more content and happier and less anxious and insecure. Often we have to fight ourselves to bring out this beautiful and confident version….