It tells a lot about you. How long you take to admit your mistake or feel sorry for it, shows how much you value or respect that relationship or that person.
If someone is not saying sorry either because he/she thinks that I am not wrong, Why should I say sorry? The other person should come and admit the mistake first- all this will harm you only. It will ruin your mental peace after all. The longer you take to end the fight, the longer you will remain disturbed, and the more you will be in that mentally or emotionally with yourself. You will keep on thinking about it, till it is solved.
And you keep on thinking that whether this relation is more important to me or this topic of the fight, or the mistake.
Remember, those who ask for forgiveness as soon as they make a mistake, love you the most. They do not want to lose you. They want to hold you on forever. They value the relationship they have with you. They are afraid of the loss which they can not bear. It is because of them only that love in the cruel world still exists. It is because of them only that the world is a beautiful place to live in.
If you take a long time to admit your mistake it only shows that you give utmost priority to your ego or your self-respect. Your value your ego more than that person or a relation.
The person who asks for forgiveness or says sorry first- is greathearted. Sometimes we say sorry just to save our relation.
Saying sorry or admitting that I have done a mistake is the first step of self- improvement.
Act of apologizing sincerely and having appolozy accepted, brings both individual's back to a level. It helps to repair relation by getting people talking again to each other and make them feel comfortable. It restores the dignity of hurt person and make them feel better. It brings back the trust and understanding to the relation.
Apologizing thus helps you and your loved one stay emotionally connected, and strengthens the bond between you two.
So be greathearted always.
I know it is easy to say- but all this we can do only for our peace of mind.
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