In a relationship, know yourself first and then you can take charge of your relationship. Make it happy, memorable and make it better and work on it.
You cannot keep others happy if you are not happy with yourself. Connect with yourself then you only you will be able to understand and realize the importance of a healthy relationship. If you want to maintain a healthy emotional relationship be it with your friends, family, siblings, or parents- first connect. one size does not fit all. There are few points which you need to understand and acquire in yourself first and then you need to see how you and your partner can share a healthy relationship with your wife, husband, mother, father, siblings.
1.He or she will show so much Affection.
2. Friendship- Friendship above all. If you are getting into a relationship, first be friends with each other. The things that you enjoy as friends will always add value to your relationship and will not be the burden of roles and responsibilities. So be friends first.
3. Sense of Humour:- Have a sense of humor up to a certain level that is laugh endlessly together, tease each other, share jokes, and scoff together but up to a certain level.
4. Being a listener:- Inculcate the habit of being a good listener. Listen to your partner, friends, and parents.
5. Enjoy similar things:- Enjoy and have similar interests. This doesn't mean that you have to ignore your interest. Find similar interests of each other and respect individual interests too.
6. Accepting the past without judgment:- We are nobody to judge someone based on the past because we don't know what he she is been through. We don't know what struggles and challenges they have been through.
7. Respecting privacy:- We need to respect each other's private time.
8. Confidence in self:- Have faith in yourself that you will take this relationship to the long end.
9. Admitting mistakes:- Holding onto the grudges and running away from the situations saying no I have not done this- makes relations more poor and poor. Don't give excuses.
10. Sense of perspective:- all of us have different perspectives. Only your perspective doesn't have to be correct your partner's perspective is wrong. No.
Learn to respect each other's perspectives ( Nazariya). Don't forcefully say that no your opinion is wrong.
11. Support each other's ambition:- To be successful respect and help in each other's ambition.
12. Maturity:- When to react and when to speak, when to be quiet when you are with someone. Using of none verbal signs to say things, understanding them is the sign of a healthy relationship. All this comes with experience and time.
13. Zero Comparison:- Don't compare. If you have to point out something there is always to point out something don't be so open and direct about comparing. Nobody likes to be compared. Give your feedback well so that it is taken we'll and is considered for the betterment of each other.
You don't owe each other or someone but you need to accept each other and the people around you.
"Water each other and Grow each other"
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