Hey lovelies 🤗This is my first blog I hope you like reading it.

“We have two ears and one mouth
so we can listen twice as much as we speak."

Now-a-days people lack listening skills . Firstly , talking about its proper definition…ability acquired by constant practice and effort which is needed to hear and understand what the other person is trying to say .

Listening skills are very important for a proper communication . Suppose while being in a meeting you are not taking interest what the other person is saying , it will leave a bad impact of you on others as you are not paying attention . Listening is not like you have to learn something its  a ability , a skill which you have to develop in yourself .

 In this era of rat race people are indulged in their own life that they don't even have time for themselves than how can they spend time listening to other's . (Isn't it right?🤨).

I am not talking only about others..m also not a very good listener in real . Being a student we have to do assignments , projects that we don't care about other person..that if he/she wants someone to listen to them  or not . We are just so much indulged in our own lives that we dont take interest in other persons thinking .

You know somewhere out there their are people who just want a person who listens to them without being judgemental . 

Have you ever thought why nowadays not only elders but us youngsters are getting depressed getting anxiety attacks? .I mean seriously we are in age to explore ourselves..but they are  just being in a room thinking about their life among themselves.

You know why these people get depressed?? Because they don't have a person to rely on them who will listen to them without being paranoid .Who will guide them about what to do.Who will assure them that they are with him/her no matter what .

Soooo Pay attention when someone is sharing his/her story /views.

Sooo.,.here i ll tell you some tips to increase your listening efficiency.

1.Concentrate what the other person is talking about .Give him/her your complete and undivided attention .

2.Maintain eye contact with him / her.

3.Keep a calm facial expression .

4.Give feedbacks wherever necessary.

5.Curb tendency to interrupt .

Listening skills are also important if you are in a meeeting and if you are not paying attention..how are you going to work?

Now-a-days in lockdown we stayed in our homes ..talked with our parents didn't you feel good ?If we pay attention to what our parents are saying , what are relatives are talking about..without grabbing your phone just for some time it will make our relation strong with them .

Soooooo Please listen if someone wants to talk to you without doing anything else and without being judgemental .

Thankyou for reading my blog🤗❤️