Published Oct 27, 2020
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Societal Issues

The First One.....

Published Oct 27, 2020
2 mins read
456 words

I have always felt that writing is the best way to vent out your feelings. I do not have any “Best Friend”. Yes I have friends who have been with me for every stage in my life. But I have this idea that why should I burden others with my problems. So that is the reason I have developed writing my happiness, my problems, my sorrows in a diary. This helps me be grateful for my good days and also see that I have seen worst days as well yet I have survived and fighting. There are many perks of writing your emotions rather than discussing it with people. Often it happens that when you share your problems with someone it happens that the other person starts sharing his or her problems. For the time being you might think that the other person has more serious problems than mine or that I am not the only one with problems. But then what next ? Yes obviously you might have felt good venting out your anger or sorrow or whatever it maybe. But today that person is listening to you, maybe tomorrow, a week, a month but how long this continues. After a point that person will say that you are being too childish or you always being a cry baby. And it may happen that the person is not always available to listen to your talks. In today's day-to-day life where everyone wants to establish oneself, have a content life or do something meaningful, travelling to places, its difficult to maintain equations. 

The other problem that might be faced is what if the other person doesn't understand you, your situation, your problems, your intensity. Something which is difficult for me might be a piece of cake for someone else and vice-versa. These days everyone is trying so hard to maintain a happy exterior that they have so many things inside, which they have either adjusted to, ignored or not accepted, and what not. And when its totally unbearable the bottled up frustration comes out. And when the moment is gone you cannot expect the another person to understand your level of intensity or importance of the situation. So I personally believe why to rely on others for your well-being. It happens that sometimes the best thing you feel is to have a heart-to-heart conversation with someone. Once in a blue moon is fine but till how long you will rely on someone else. Today or tomorrow you will find yourself alone. No one stays with you apart from your God and family. So make your pen your best-friend and stay happy.

P.S These are personal opinions. No offence to anyone. 

 

Hope you liked it. 

 

 

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om_mani_padme_hum 10/27/20, 1:50 PM
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Could relate to judgements from others, nice write-up !
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dutta1530 10/27/20, 2:28 PM
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Very true! Well expressed 😊
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abubin 10/28/20, 2:10 AM
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Carry on..
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anjali 10/28/20, 5:15 AM
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मेरे ब्लॉग भी पढें और पसंद आये तो लाइक करें
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maria 10/29/20, 5:29 AM
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Could relate... Do check out my blogs too
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shrutika.2203 6/14/21, 11:45 AM
I do the same.

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