Hey my lovely Readers!! Hope you guys are doing fine. So as the title suggests about Nature, well here I'm referring to human nature. So , we all know that every human being has different nature right. But have you ever thought that what if your nature is the main culprit of your failures, rejections, letdowns, collapse, frustration and whatever you like to call it. If yes, then you definitely need to read further to know my experience and how I am dealing it with right now. Ok so let me tell you one thing clearly that one's  Nature definitely gonna either make or destroy careers, life, relation. I know many of you don't agree to me and that's okay , everybody has a different opinion. But I think one should learn from others mistakes. Alright, so I'll tell you how "Nature" can destroy you like in minutes and how it is connected to everything. So, you know not everybody has a quality of acceptance, which I lack personally. As this nature has bothered me in every step of my life , I have even lose some people , relations, opportunities and what not. I have never thought this nature could cost me that much. Like I have always feared of new people and involving them you know , not clearly an extrovert. I have always like to keep the people who are already in my life and not allowing others to enter, kind of not "getting out of my comfort zone" see one trait can change your whole nature. Then I also fear one of my trait very much like getting irritated quickly, get angry quickly and one thing led to another.

But, there is one thing who almost everybody have and that is “Expectation” this thing literally I hate the most. We expect from people so much that we end getting hurt badly. It is easy to say that “don't expect” and all , there are many books or videos that convey this message but we fail to apply, because we just tend to forget when to 'apply'. And that's where we start killing our mental health. You know sometimes being in a relation we just forget to take care of ourselves , its not like we have to become selfish but taking care of oneself won't hurt the other. And the “Expectation” trait is so much in everyone's nature that you can just capture in a small kid, but that would be kind of their Right!! But if you are a teenager and somehow you note some traits & got a hint that it's not right . Then congrats buddy!! you have completed the most important step in your life by recognizing this trait in your nature. Coz there are many who didn't have a hint why everything is going wrong because nobody is ready to find a solution rather they would like to blame others. And for adults who still having troubles because of their nature, there is still hope by modifying your marked traits and nature , you can change yourself for your betterment only. Trust me, I am still surffering and correcting things which needs to be corrected. So there is always a hope you just need to choose!!

So that's it for today, I hope you guys like my opinion , my story , my experience. Till then, take care of yourself guys it needs to be taken care of.