Hey friends!! Here I am with another blog. In this cold weather a warm touch is all we want🤗. I don't know, how to start? This is little uneasy to start with. 

Being touched, what does that exactly mean?? Everyone must have different meaning, according to the situation or their perspective. According to dictionary, “to be so close together that there is no space between” or simply “to be in contact".

According to me touch is something that we do, when words are not enough to express how we feel, we get physically closer. A touch could be warm, calm, peaceful, satisfying, unknown, unwanted, irritating, harsh, unforgettable, sensitive, ticklish and many more.  Since our birth till the death we are going to have a lot of them. Until you have it you will not understand. 

There is a dialogue in one of my favorite movie “Five feet apart”, 

“We need that touch from the one we love, almost as much as we need air to breathe.”

I am totally agree with the quote. Everyone must crave for the touch, that could be a hug, cuddles, kiss or something more. Sometimes we just miss being touched by our loved ones, not necessary that has to be our lover. We can crave for a hug from our family, a friends hand on our shoulder or something else. We feel such a touch not only on our skin but on our soul. 

Now let us talk about the “touch”, the unwanted one. No one likes being touched unnecessarily. So many people have habit to touch someone unnecessarily with bad intentions. Some people can't resist such a situation. I believe, in everyones life they must have feel such a thing, which is unwanted but inevitable. This unwanted touch may affect badly someones life, it can become the reason to sabotage a person mentally as well as physically. On public places we used to get touched unintentionally by others still it is uncomfortable, if someone feeling sorry for such a thing then please don't bother about that touch. But if something like that is happening repeatedly then you should be worried about that. 

If someone is keep touching you and you don't want them to then just push them away. Otherwise they will keep doing it and it is harmful for you. You have to learn to say no. No is a really powerful word, it strengthen more when you confidently say it out loud. 

In simple words ask for the one you want and obviate the unwanted one.