Marriage, a beautiful relation. Everyone must have different thoughts to define marriage.

When it comes to marriage, I think we should think about it first and then only go for it. Sometimes just one meeting is enough to know that this is the person we want to spend our life, or sometimes even after many more meetings we are confused. Having confirmation about committing our whole life with someone is enough, everything else will get easy after that. How do we get this confirmation?? In my case I want the feeling that will tell me this is the person I would like to spend my life only if he also want to😅. But so many times this thing never happens and people get married, such a marriage works in some cases but may not work in other cases. So many people are living their life unhappily with their partner just with the fear of society. These people can't be happy and can't keep their partner happy either. 

People have to try to understand what is wrong with their relationship, then only they can find solution. On other hand people have already identified problem but don't want to resolve it, they are just living with it. It's wrong, don't live your life for others sake. 
Nowadays people are getting divorce on high rate, we can't say that they are doing right or wrong thing, they are doing the necessary thing. Instead of living unhappy it's better to get separate, and let everyone live a happy life. We have to know what to hold, when to hold, how to hold but time comes when we have to let go. We can't keep someone without their will, rather we should not. Have anyone thought about, why people are getting divorce? So many of us don't think about it, what we do is gossipping. Stop doing it and think about the reasons, so that our generation can prevent them from happening. We have to be clear what we expect from our partner apart from love. Even when there is love so many other things matter. 

Whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage don't let others force you into this, don't do it because others are doing it, do it for yourself. First thing to do is get a clear vision about what you expect from your partner and then from marriage. Later on discuss it with the person you are marrying. If it is meant to happen it will, don't rush, it's not a race it's life, you have to enjoy it.