Hey guys!! Today I am going to tell you a story about one of the person I know. Let's begin then.

I have seen a girl having trouble letting go of the things she broke herself years ago. Let me tell you in brief.

One of the girl I know was in relation with a guy for almost 7 years. Later on due to some issues and misunderstanding she broke up with the guy. I am not saying any one of them was wrong in their relation, both of them have issues and the girl decided to break the relation. Even after break up they were constantly in touch but just as a friend. Honestly, I don't understand this term "just friends", guys how could you behave as just friends after sharing so many things? How could you behave like nothing happened? If you ask me, I think after end of a relation being "just friends" is a myth. Let's get back to what I was telling. So, the girl constantly keeps saying that she don't want to be with the guy almost for more than two years. Now this guy decided to move on but before that he again asked her and let her decide for a week. This was the last call, after that he never asked her. 

He decided to get marry and I don't think there is anything wrong about his decision. He met a girl on matrimony site, this girl accepted him with his past. Now climax begins, his ex girlfriend want him back and wants to get married with him. She literally tortured him with back to back messages and call, insisted to meet, insisted to break his fixed marriage. The guy agreed to meet and talk but she didn't stopped there she keep messaging him, when the guy blocked her because her behavior she messaged his mother and his friends through facebook and told them to convince him. Here she devasted every hope left. The guy met her and told her, “I don't love you anymore, please don't create anymore trouble and let me go”, he didn't even listened to her. All this time she was saying “our love is pure, he won't marry other girl. Someone has to guide him to the right way." 

I just wonder, where was this pure love when he was trying to convince her, when he was listening her calmly? I am not doubting their love either but somewhere I felt if you truly love him let him decide what he want as he let you decide.