We must have seen or read the thing “friends forever”. Have you ever noticed how many friends are there, whom you thought will be forever in your life? If you have them then you are lucky.

It is human nature to expect, and there is nothing wrong about that. Things go wrong when you expect and get disappointed. Until now I had so many friends coming and going in my life and I also expected them to be there for me as I was for them. But sometimes we are not the one for whom they care, they use us for their needs and we misunderstand that we are their friends. Such a friends are not forever type, they are forever needy type.

Who doesn't have a friend??? Close or distant friends are necessary. We need friend to share those things we can't share with our family. Some of them becomes more than family, some are family. Friends play important role in our life or let us say they are inevitable part of our life. We can't determine which one is going to stay forever with us, cause according to my experience nothing stays forever. But in exceptional cases some are meant to be forever with us and those are blessings. Some friends comes in our life for short time but they performs big role in our life, some are there for really long time but their appearance doesn't make any mark.

Now I don't have a lot of friends but those I have they are precious to me. I love them so much. I have always wondered if they were not in my life what would have done without them. They are just like supporting pillers to my life. I always think, am I that important for them as they are to me?? I don't know yet, but the answer won't lessen their importance in my life.

One of my friend told me, it doesn't matter how long a relationship goes, the only thing that matter is how it goes. If you have enjoyed every moment of that relation then only you are going to have happy memories even when that relation has broken on bad notes.  I don't expect my friends to prioritise me more just because I am prioritising them. It should be their own choice, cause I know that their presence make sense to my life and I won't make any mistake that's gonna affect our friendship.