In our entire life, we have lived till now, I think we must have some precious moment, few moments might have given us bad memories, on other hand some may makes us enormously happy at the instant. According to me life is all about memories. Joy or sorrow whatever they bound to, memories are precious.
Boundaries are something, that reminds us the moment we do not want to happen again or not to happen ever. Sometimes we draw boundaries around us, to preserve ourselves from someone or something. Maybe sometimes these boundaries are not for others but ourselves. What are these for?? I believe everyone has a particular reason for that. These reasons could be acceptable, may be unacceptable, it totally depends on our views.
Without any reason there could not be any boundary. Putting boundaries is alright, but forever living within these boundaries is not what we born for. Sometimes we either have to cross them or may need to break them. And I want everyone to be prepared for such a situation, cause if we are not prepared it is going to be hard for us when time comes.
Sometimes surrounding circumstances may demand us to go through the situation due to which we draw the boundaries. There could be too many reasons that lead us to put boundaries, but some or other day we have to break them. We have to give it a try. Its us who is going to decide for ourselves, do not let these boundaries caged you within. We might regret about our decision later but atleast we won't blame ourselves for not even trying.
We have to understand that boundaries won't stop something from happening. Just with the fear setting limits to our life is totally wrong. We can not assume how things are going to happen in future if we cross the limits.
One more thing, we can not set boundaries to our mind, If we could have, we will get ability to control our emotions. Even boundaries can not control most of the things, somehow they prevents as long as possible. Preventing can't guarantee the things won't happen ever. Maybe someday things may happen from which we are preventing with boundaries. These happening might affect you more or less, so, why not to face them?? We can't run away from problems forever, someday we are going to get tired, that's when we surrender, instead of that lets face them with courage we have.