Learning is a very important part of life. And sharing that learning with everyone is important as well. The nest part of adulthood is that it  teaches you a lot but the worst part that learning process is painful and tough. Of course, NO PAIN NO GAIN. But there are some pain in your life that are not worthy to go through. This line is not easily adopted by us humans, as compromise and adjusting becomes your trait and we humans will spend their entire life for taking validations from others even if that gives us pain and trouble. I have learned after a loads of compromises and silly adjustments made by myself for people who did not deserve such sacrifice.
Do make compromises for people but do not allow them to take you for granted.
That being said, I would like to highlight to you that we as humans do have rights to live our life without obtaining validations from others. Because it is your life and your choice. So lets list some unpopular things that you can do without regret for YOURSELF.
1.It is very difficult to say no.  Very hard to not care. Very bold to ignore peoples. Very brave to choose yourself before others . All this is very uncomfortable.  BUT it is important to take these uncomfortable decisions before people take away comfort from your life.
2. We all should grow up enough to ignore the toxic people ,never look back again or regret it and look forward to our own damn life. You need to assess  whether these people are real or plastic? Needing people in life and having people in life is two different things.
And anything that hurts your life is not worth staying for.
3.Making your life detox is not wrong. Saying NO, ignoring or just taking such rough decisions for yourself may or may not be so your type. So, being a little selfish and living your life according to your norms is not evil . People are hypocrite. They will argue any decision you take. But never comeback once you take a decision for your better being.
4.Sometimes being 'not your type' for the sake of yourself is better than just being the innocent you sacrificing all your inner peace for toxic people. Inner peace is what the world will not let you have it for your life. Being a sweet person will attract compliments on your face, but world talk ill  about every one their behind. Then what is costing you to take your stand? Being bitter but honest is not wrong. Being good is good. But sometimes being good to  yourself is better than being for others.
5. Some relations do not deserve your 100%. Its ok to not be perfect. Don't let people take you for granted. If you are not happy, way away from it. It will pain in start but it is better to suffer for shorter period than your entire life.
Simple and sweet note to readers -

 ITS OKAY IF YOU ARE NOT ACCORDING TO THE WORLD's NORMS & EXPECTATIONS BECAUSE YOU ARE UNIQUE ENOUGH TO MAKE YOUR OWN WORLD.