Published Jan 24, 2023
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Comparing Ourselves To Others

Published Jan 24, 2023
2 mins read
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We all compare ourselves. Returns, right? Some people say that when it’s not good to compare yourself, which is right to an extent. What happens with most of them is you compare and you feel bad. Ohh my God what am I doing with my life? That person is so successful. Its like you know that person had the same opportunities like me. He or she is a same age as me and still they are doing wonders in their life. I feel like a. Total failure. You know this thing, I think most of you. Most of us can relate to at times even I have felt this. See, its okay to compare yourself with others. You need to accept that there will be always somebody in our life who’s better than us. At any given phase of your life there will be always somebody who is better than us. Now this person who is better than us, you should have that fire to you know, understand what is making them special and you know gain those knowledge or experience whatever it requires to be in that position. So you are seeing a person being successful at particular thing. It gives you an inspiration to be like that. Now you achieve it. Once you get that particular goal, whatever you want it. Once that is done the next thing comes the next challenge like somebody is still there who is better than you. Its completely new thing but still there is somebody who is better than you. Now you will be driven to you conquer that particular thing. See, that’s a new video of life. You just, you know, keep seeing something on the other that you wanted to conquer. Now, today, today, you feel that you know, joining the Indian Armed Forces is the biggest challenge of your life. This is the biggest dream of your life. Yes. At this face. Yes. Once you have this dream of yours in your hand, you will, you will go for the next one for sure. Right, so. Comparing yourself with others is good to when you are being inspired and when you wanted to achieve them. When there is a commitment from your end to achieve that. You were seeing somebody who has been successful, okay? Now you understand what they have done to be in that position and then you try yourself to get into that. Please. Right. This comparison is not to, you know, make you feel bad about yourself and you know, describe about it and do nothing about it. No, that’s not how you compare yourself. You see, the other person is being more successful than you. Okay? Now what I need to do what he or she has done to be there. I want you to be there now what should I do that should be the approach.

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