Hey all,

Today I will be sharing with you all that sometimes keeping yourself above everything and prioritizing is important and must be done. It’s not immoral or wrong in any possible way. Sometimes call for self-love and denying too. It’s okay if you choose yourself and say no to things that are not much important. People generally categorize and comment too. But honestly tell me is there anything new in it. People have always been like this. Even if you choose them, then also they will look for loopholes and ways to demotivate you. Society has always been like this. They won’t applaud or appreciate your decision any which way. So, it’s better to sometimes choose yourself over such people. 

Prioritizing is important. You can’t be always available for people who are just mere acquaintances or for the people who are rarely available for you. Relations work both ways. One-sided relationships don’t work as it exhausts a single person and the bond too. So, if you feel this way in any relationship or if you don’t feel welcomed or that warmth in a relationship then it’s better to engage yourself with the people who make you feel welcomed or with yourself. There is no better company than yourself. You can be your best friend and trust me learn to stay with yourself and soon you will realise your worth and people around you will too understand the value of your presence. 

Say no, whenever required. Don’t be hesitant or ashamed of this. You can’t be ever available for all the people. If you don’t have time say no, don’t burden yourself just to please other people. People are never satisfied and pleased. This is human tendency. Also, if you will be ever able for them they might take you for granted and may not value your hard put efforts too. People generally value things when they are gone or are no more near them. Their absence makes them understand what they were missing on. So, work as you wish. Say no when required. People are not going to change anytime soon. They have been like this and might also stay like this. You can only modify and change yourself. So, bring that change that teaches a lesson to everybody around you. It’s all in your hands how you want it to be. After all, it’s your call.

Thank you.