Hey readers,

How you all? Hope you all are safe and fine. Well, the next blog that I was trying to publish was again about some useful tips and tricks which could have helped you all, but only if it was published because I don’t know why but there is some glitch or error, because of which I have not been able to publish it. I tried every possible thing but again it’s not working. So now I’m trying to write on a different genre whole together and I hope it gets published.

So, most of you and majorly the girls would have noticed or felt those set of eyes or those ever commenting kind of people who are always around us and by always I mean always because even if it’s a small family get-together, family function, any public or even private transport or any place for that matter there are always people not only eyeing you but also continuously, shamelessly commenting on what you are wearing or how you can wear it. No matter how hard you try to adjust yourself or mould yourself into the person or personality that you don’t like or not usually prefer, you will always find these people at every corner of the street, at every function, or in a gist almost everywhere. But here some people might say that it’s a human tendency to look around and comment. Agreed. Even I used to be this kind. But wait, I learned it very late in my life but I don’t want you guys to miss out on something which we knowingly or unknowingly at times do and then later at some point of time regret it. So the lesson I learned is, it’s okay to look but it’s not ethical or moral to stare. There is a difference between the two that we tend to ignore or forget. It’s okay I get it because it has been normalised by our society but no, not anymore. It’s really shameful or even embarrassing for some. You don’t know what your casual stare can do to a person or how it can even affect the person emotionally and psychologically.

So, try and adapt the fact that it’s one’s choice of clothes that one wears and to even try and wear any new or unique trend, takes a lot of guts. We usually criticise or stare at things that we somewhere know in our subconscious minds to which we don’t have access to and it’s okay if you can’t. Everybody is unique in their way but you need to accept this phenomenon for everyone and not just expect it from others. Even I used to judge people on their clothes and all, because it was normal in my family too and I’m not blaming them anywhere it’s just wrong and the sooner we realize this, the better. But yes today I can proudly say that to some extent not completely but somewhere I have changed myself and my mother and sisters too. So yes I’m glad that I tried and I even succeed somewhere. And trust me it’s not that difficult. You try it and you would know and that day maybe you will feel more comfortable in your clothes and will even make others around you feel the same.

Thank you