When I was in my teenage , I love to attend weddings .I thought that weddings are about the love between two people and love is the root cause of marriage between the people. But , when I grow up I get to know many things about the society and the politics behind the marriage.
When a girl is born, since from the first day her parents start to think about her marriage and the dowry they gonna give in the name of gift and about the groom who earns in lakhs .
When I love a guy I thought the strong , un-conditional and true love between us will win and our love will end in marriage . Who knows he gonna run away in mid-way !!!
YES!! When u wanna get married you should be financial independent , you should own a house and who should be also ready for all the responsibilities. Every one are talking about the my marriage age but not about my mental health or about my thoughts about marriage.
Some girls wanna get married soon , some wanna enjoy alone for a while .It's their choice or our choice or My choice . But most of the people are not ready to accept it. People say it's all about the generation gap but actually it's about the mentality we hold up there.
In some cases marriage is like politics , family business , reputation , commitment , parents responsibility and the need of society. If a girl was born she should go to school then to college then to her in laws that to for a boy go to school then to college then to job to earn money then to marriage. All these cultures , traditions and the rules are built for the well being of humans if don't help us any-more what is the use of them.
We can't change anything but we can live with our own rules and expectations without disrespecting anyone. Live and let live is the phrase which will be very much apt for this era. If we stay not indulge in others privacy no one will indulge in ours. So we have to believe love is the most important thing to get married followed by all other needs. If you have love in heart for someone than you will do all things to make it work because that is the magic of love.
Thank you for reading guys!! I hope you all have a good day !⭐
