If a girl was born her parents will start to think about her marriage since the first day . The society has made a illusion that a girl can't be a heir or she can't inherit her father's business. Yes the laws are made and they are in the constitution books but not in the mind of people.

            Most of the parents have a view that marriage can be a security or may be an insurance kind-a stuff for their daughter .As they are getting older they want a guy to look after their daughter. If their daughter says she love some one, can you relate ??. They will blame her like she did the most extreme bad thing in the world and will scold her that she insulted them  in-front of the society . I am not getting these parent mind , what is in it to feel ashamed if a girl loves a boy.

         So, you should love who-ever you gonna married .Right !! you have to love some one because you are married or you are married so you should love your partner .Whatever !!!!even if you love a guy ,you should keep all that aside and for the happiness of your parents and you should marry the guy your parents asked to. According to parent their daughter's marry is their responsibility more than her life may be her dream.

          Have you ever thought who found marry or from which period people began to get married .The culture of marriage has began between 200 to 300 years ago. What does people do before that ??. They  followed a culture called  loving each other not just  marrying each other. Of-course Survival of the fittest  is a essential thing ,  but that doesn't mean you shouldn't do want to wish.

          There is no age called “marriage age” getting married is a choice not compulsory. The family is doing all the stuffs to make the girl get married as soon as and as much as possible not because they want to but because the relatives and the closed ones are asking them to. I just wanna quote that Unmarried daughters are  way better than Unhappy married ones.

           A marry can be a one day celebration for the society but for the girl it is her life . Let her take her own time to decide .What is wrong in it ??,if she is career minded let her be.. if she wanna get married let her be…

                        "Let people have their own choices"