Hello Guys, 

Today I want to talk about a topic that is very common and familiar to every girl, i.e. sexual abuse. From the beginning we girls are told by our parents to stay away from unknown persons or who are strangers. But our parents never told us that also be aware of our familiar and known ones. According to the data, most of the cases of sexual abuse are committed by known ones who can be relatives or neighbors. As a girl many times I also become scared of my relatives. I don't know what people get by starting at girls continuously, why they people want to make us feel embarrassed. Why we can't sit as we want to sit, why we can't talk to our male friends to whom we wanna talk. Why our parents always teach us to stay covered, why don't teach their son to respect others' daughters and sisters also?

      We face many phases in our life periods, sexual abuse, security, fear of the opposite gender, and many more. Day by day the cases of domestic violence, sexual abuse, rape are increasing. When  society can stand against love marriage, then why the same society can't stand against rapes and domestic violence. If a familiar one touches us badly and intentionally why we don't pay attention and don't raise our voice against that.  People feel that this type of activities effect is temporary or for the very short term, but it's not true. This type of incident or activity's, and can lead to mental pressure, anxiety and many more diseases related to mental health which can affect a person in long term.

The victim looks good and happy from the outside but from inside that person is crying for help. The victim becomes scared to trust even the good people. When I started noticing this type of people, with wrong intentions, I found that many of the people around are having very dirty minds and very cheap thinking. These kinda people behave very sweetly with you but after a few times, they start showing their real colors, and bad intentions. Every girl and boys to know about good and bad touches, sex education. Everyone thinks that sexual abuse is only happening with females but no in some cases, boys are also victims in such activities As a  responsible person we need to teach others about sex education, the difference between good touch and bad touch. I hope that this blog can save even  a single life … 

Dear girls and boys don't be afraid to share any bad incident with your parents, they will surely help you out in every situation. If you don't share it with anyone it will lead to serious problems which can affect your health and life too.