"BODIES AREN'T UGLY. BULLYING IS"

■ Being overweight i always neglected everywhere even if i talk about school or building relationships i always get failed in friendships nobody wants to be my friend because of my physical appearance and my relatives always1a says that if will lose weight you will look prettier but they don't know which kind of emotional and physical issues i'm suffering from or which kind of emotional trauma i'm facing but they only know is how to tease a person and my friend always says that i think she eats a lot only then a person gain more weight . I don't know why people are obsessed by the appearance body shaming is the act of criticising people on the basis of their looks .

■ Society always taunt you if you are fat, skinny, tall, short, too dark, too hairy my friend gave me a nickname such as Moti, Bhes, hippo, ele(elephant) and whenever someone called me that i always felt suicidal my morale was crushed and i start hating myself.

■ I always being bullied in schools as well as in universities also and it negatively affects me mentally and physically and i isolate myself and avoid social interaction too i felt so low and lonely and cry all day.I love to dance but because of my bulkiness none of the teachers let me to take participate in dance they always say that i look odd among all even i didn't take part in any of the activities becaus i started feeling ashamed of myself and i was always jealous of slim and trim girls but you have to focus on health not on size and weight.

■ Then a boy came into my life and changed me and my life, he was my classmate and we start sitting together we became best friends and he start loving me not my body he always compliment me, taking stand of me, he accept me with all my imperfection and makes me feel that i am the most beautiful person in the world and he changed the perception about my body, i start loving my myself and i was growing in size , i was lucky and comfortable with who i was .

So do not change your appearance because of what someone else said or thinks about yo and you body, if you are also been body shamed because of your weight (overweight or underweight), consider healthy tips and ways to manage it with the help of a doctor or an professional talk to those who motivates you and gives you emotional support and accept your  flaws♡.

● So dear people , no matter how a child looks like , never ever call a child ugly Never tease a person about their imperfections and tell them how beautiful they are.

♡ GOD MADE ME THE WAY I AM , AND I ACCEPT MYSELF ♡