Hey everyone today I am bringing up something that is the most important thing in a relationship or marriage i.e. Emotional Intimacy.

Talking about the term itself, we can define it as a closeness or feeling of togetherness at emotional level.

You often listen to people talking about everything is alright in their relationship yet they don't feel like they are not on the same page. Actually relationships are not just about taking care of each other, physical intimacy, loyalty or taking responsibilities. It is also about feeling your partner emotionally….

Well till now men must be thinking that they have started reading a wrong blog, so wait and finish it first. Because I want to talk about the emotions of men as well. Yes, men usually behold their emotions and don't show how much they need support or how much they want to feel secure.

 They just don't say but that's the beauty of Emotional intimacy that you need not to explain yourself at all. If you guys are emotionally together then he/she will totally be aware of your feelings.

How to create an emotionally intimate relationship????

I will tell you a few things that i have observed over time and they surely helps:

• Always ask your partner how was his/her day?
• If he/she seems upset to you, ask them what is bothering them?
• Always tell them that you are with them no matter what happens.
• Share your problems and joy with them.
• Hugs are the most beautiful gesture so always hug your partner once or twice a day.
• Building trust and loyalty is a difficult one so if you love them take a leap of faith. I am sure they won't let you down if they love you too.
• Take out few hours in a week to spend together without any phone, laptop or tv. Just talk.
• Always be polite to your partner because then only they can feel secure to share their feelings with you.
• If you doesn't not like some actions of your partner then before letting out your anger, try to ask the reason and understand their perspective. If you still feel it's wrong then you can state it simply that you don't agree with them. 
• Always figure out problems together as team.

I felt it is important to bring up such topics because people these days are not involved at emotional level and just remain superficial where they can just flaunt their relationship and get some physical pleasure. People don't value developing emotional characteristics of their relationship or marriage and then end up being either depressed in that bond or get separated.

So, I hope this blog may be helpful to people suffering in their relationships…