Though we are kind and nice to everyone, few people don't like us. Why does this happens? Why they don't like us? Why do they try to ignore us ?What should we do to make them to like us?
First we have to get one thing straight into our mind, i.e., "NOBODY IS PERFECT IN THIS WORLD". Everyone has their own challenges to deal with and every single chance to behave indifferently towards us.
Let's make it simple by understanding in a analytical format: If you have 100 people around you, that you must face daily. If you are really nice & kind to everyone, at least 80 of them reflects the same energy as yours but 20 of them doesn't. As I already said โNobody is perfectโ ,that implies to you as well. If there are 50 things to like about you, there also may be 50 things to dislike about you. May be your kindness makes them insecure. Everyone has their own experience of emotions and it's not that easy to guess what's going on in one's mind. It completely depends on them in what form they perceive you. But the thing is there is a shift of their perception at any time. They can't dislike you forever, as kindness is the powerful tool anyone can have in this world.
What should we do to make them like us? I can simply say that why do you even bother about them but I know that is not the ultimate solution for your conflict. Important key for this is PATIENCE. Give the time they need to change their perception towards you and make sure to expect less . I have seen people saying that, โIf they are unkind to me, why should I be kind?โ. This doesn't work as such, remember unkind people are more in need of kindness. Just be yourself, right time comes soon. There is a reason for each and every person that comes into our lives. Good people share love, Others share the value and importance of love. There are no bad people in life unless they try to kill you. According to my experience, the people who don't like you at first but understands you later, are the ones who will like you more than anyone else. Everything happens for a reason, so keep smiling and start your day fresh. Spread kindness forever :)