We are grown to be a good human being by the people around us. Since childhood, we are absorbing the qualities of people around us subconsciously, same as a sponge absorbs water. The thing is that qualities here may be good or bad. As these people played a great role in our mental and physical growth, it is necessary to make them feel important even after we grow into independent adults. 

Though we are flying in sky, we always need to acknowledge our roots and appreciate them. 

When we are in our early 20's and start earning, it's common to experience the phase of pride (head with two horns) and we feel it is only because of us we achieved all this success. The people I'm talking here  are usually our family members, friends and close society people. As we grow, it will get clear that because of all these people you have achieved something in life. The Good people have given you the knowledge of dealing with life and bad people taught you lessons to remember. Though we are independent and we can do all stuff by ourself, we need to acknowledge the presence of our elders by asking them a favor. Atleast you need to make your family members to feel as such. 

If we don't acknowledge this now, there will be a low moment in our life where we get hit by the fact that we need these people though we became as independent as we can. It doesn't matter how much you earn per month but it matters how you understand such small things in life and act according to it. 

Most importantly our parents, as they grow old they feel helpless and feel sad that they can't support us as they did for 25-30 yrs of our life. If we make them feel that their existence doesn't help us, then they get more depressed. Small things like checking some online stuff regarding the house like electricity bill, internet bill etc, it makes  them feel that they are important. Discussing our conflicts and asking them for a suggestion is the best thing we can do, these things boost them up to survive happily and also helps us to slove our conflicts with maturity. These small things make them feel alive. 

The same thing has to be done to the children of the house, few minor duties has to be alloted and give them the opportunity to think regarding the house maintenance and stuff. After they reach 12 yrs, basic finances of the house has to be explained. This will help them to manage things in future and also it makes them feel important. 

In between the couple, responsibilities has to be divided and discussed. If only one member is working hard for their future it would be hard and rough and this also makes the other person unwanted, thus both has to play key role in their family development. 

Mental health is improved by this basic feeling of importance. If you acknowledge this and help others to feel important in your life, makes them to have a strong bond with you and you will have a healthy happy relationship with others.

So my dear readers, start your day by making someone to feel important, wanted and loved in your life😊❤