There is no one in this world who actually cares about your problems, so please stop expecting something from other people. Remember that the best guide for your life is only you. How can you self-motivate yourself? What steps do you need to follow to self-motivate yourself consistently?

SELF-MOTIVATION is the most powerful key to achieve things in life. It can be trying to control your emotions on unnecessary people or things and also obtaining a skill, the only thing you need is a self push or self-motivation

I agree motivation from others boosts up your energy but it is temporary, self-motivation is permanent that boosts up even when others discourage you.

SELF-MOTIVATION leads to SELF-CONFIDENCE that leads to your GOAL.

The next question that arises in our mind is how to motivate ourselves; these are the ways that I trust in:

*1 - MAINTAIN A DAIRY: 

On one side of the book write motivation lines about yourself like “I CAN DO IT NO MATTER WHAT” or “I'M A KIND AND POLITE HUMAN BEING EVER ON THIS PLANET” to self-motivate yourself from the moment you wake up. Just give 5-10 min to accomplish this habit every day.

On the other side of the book write about the emotions that you can't handle in real life like sadness, anger, disappointment, guilt, etc to make yourself calm and save energy for yourself. Here you have to write until you feel better. Peace is the thing that all of us need in life.              

Trust me though it sounds childish, this technique helped me a lot and also my friends. It helps you to concentrate on your goals rather than on idiots who demotivate you.

*2 - TRAIN YOUR MIND:

 Repeatedly saying something trains your mind - i.e; tell your mind that emotions are temporary, they vanish along time and the things you want to achieve are permanent, don't waste your valuable time on temporary things.

*3 - PRACTICE THE PAUSE:

This is the recent technique that I discovered for myself; Pause when you have a conflict regarding something in your life; when your mind is totally messed up with emotions, just pause instead of bursting out ( literally just go to sleep or divert your mind with fun things that you love to do), Time heals everything.

All the best for your future buddy :) I hope my blog helps you to achieve what you want in life. Always motivate yourself. Life is beautiful out there if you work hard and stay self-motivated :) TRUST YOURSELF. PEACE :)