Nobody on the earth is trustable to an infinite extent. There is a boundary where you can trust others and out of that nobody is trusted.
“The more you neglect that boundary, the more you will throw yourself into trouble.”
You can't predict what's actually running in someone's mind. The super cool people turn into super devil people within a snap. It's within our limit whom to trust for what extent and why. No one can actually define that point to point, experience gives the taste of it.
Trust is broken by those whom we trust the most.
The people whom we trust the most have the absolute chance to break it because we are the ones giving that chance. It's like giving them the passcode and trusting that they will not utilize it. It's our foolishness to think so. Nobody is cheated unless we ourselves give that chance to them. It's our mistake to trust them unconditionally and the lesson is taught only to us.
We are the ones who are stabbing ourselves by trusting someone blindly.
But one thing is under our control, i.e, not to fool ourselves by trusting the same person again. Once the glass is broken we can't fix it into its original shape. Same as such once trust is broken it's broken forever. Yeah everyone needs a second chance but it will never get back to its original form. We can give them a chance but with warning signs which we have to be alert about. It's just like trusting them with scars. It's better to limit ourselves to trust them again. It's best to avoid giving that chance so that we can minimize the chances of getting hurt again.
Everyone has those people in life where you don't need to think about words like trust. These people are your family hopefully. It's worst for those whose backstabbers are in their own family itself, I feel so sorry for you. But for most of them, family is the safe zone where they can rely on.
So my dear readers, be alert always to whom to trust and whom to not. Analyze yourself to what extent you can trust someone. I believe we need to work towards our purpose instead of focusing on other people in our life. The more we focus on them, the more chances we give them to interfere in our journey of life.
#keep_smiling
#stay_joyful.