Continuation…
•Discuss Anything Openly, Including Painful Topics.
•You must be willing to voice any concerns you have in the connection. It is said to foster closeness, and intimacy fosters trust. You still have to do it, even though it hurts. Your relationship cannot be fixed by anyone else. Nobody else ought to either. In many cases, injecting some pain into your relationship through vulnerability is the only way to make it stronger, just as causing pain to your muscles causes them to grow back stronger.
•No secrets can exist. Secrets separate you,Always.
•Two Healthy People Make Up Healthy Connection.
•Two healthy and happy people are necessary for a healthy and happy partnership."Individuals" is the key term here. This refers to two independent, self-sufficient individuals who have their own identities, opinions, and independent, independent activities.
•In a relationship, "sacrifices" are frequently discussed. You are expected to continually make sacrifices for your partner's needs and wishes in order to maintain the relationship happy.
•Set Each Other Apart.
One of the most prevalent topics in the emails was the value of maintaining distance and segregation from one another. Some people are hesitant to grant their partner independence and freedom. This results from a lack of confidence and/or the fear that if we give our partner too much space, they may realise they no longer want to be with us. In general, we tend to try to control our partner's behaviour and the connection more when we feel uncomfortable with our own merit in the relationship and to be loved. However, more crucially, it is a subtle sort of disrespect to be unable to accept our partners for who they are.
•Learn to Fight Well.
The connection is a real, active entity. It cannot become stronger without stress and challenge, much like the body and muscles. You must struggle. You must negotiate a solution. The marriage is made of obstacles.
•Develop Your Capacity for Forgiveness.
People in long-term, fulfilling relationships have issues that never totally go away, but those who believe they must always agree and make compromises end up sad and break apart. This seems to me to be related to respect, just like anything else. It is inevitable that two diverse people who share a life may disagree on some issues since they hold different beliefs and perspectives. The key here is to simply accept the difference, love them despite it, and, when things get a little testy around the edges, to forgive them for it. The key is not to change the other person because wanting to change your partner is inherently disrespectful.
•Little Things Lead to Huge Things Over Time.
It's crucial to maintain relationships despite life's ups and downs. Your annoying brother-in-law will eventually join a monastery, your kids will grow up, and your parents will pass away. You is left when that happens?You nailed it. Right Mr./Right Mrs. You don't want to be staring at a stranger 20 years from now because life shattered the relationships you had before the shitstorm began. You and your partner must act as the hurricane's eye.
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