Life is the exam wherein you give the test first and then learn the lesson so it automatically is not in our hands to pass. Each test tests our patience, our faith, our beliefs, our understanding, our intellect and what not. The decisions we make today results in what kind of future we will have. So over all life doesn't give you any chance to take it lightly until and unless you are happy and satisfied in whatever situation you are right now. But here I will talk about the lessons I learnt.

The first one is choose your friends wisely. Friends are the only family that we choose. When given the opportunity then use it wisely. Friends have a great impact on our thoughts, our lifestyles, our preferences. Understand yourself and then choose your friends accordingly. Also understand that you are not for everybody. People come and people go but you have to choose the ones worth crying.

Second lesson is  your physical features or your body frame doesn't matter at all. Eventually we all will die what will stay alive is how we treated other people, what kind of a human being we were. The people who body shame others are someone who think they are perfect but we all know nobody is perfect. So basically they project their own insecurities on to you. They find something in you which they can call a flaw and they will laugh upon you so that you feel bad about yourselves and will not even look up to them.  Be kind at heart that's the only thing that matters.

Third is a secret is a secret for a reason. Do not open up to everyone. Remember not everyone is your friend. And in today's world people usually befriend you for some benefits. Ask yourself that the person you are trusting is really someone to trust? Your heart won't lie to you.

Fourth lesson is let the past stay in past. We are humans and we will make mistakes. But lesson learnt from that mistake is important. If you don't learn the lesson then the same mistake will happen again and again over and over. Learn from it and move on. Grow spiritually and also a person. Remember you can be toxic too. But again don't let your past divert you from your future.

Fifth lesson is always have a plan. Always be sure what do you want to do. Look around and observe. Anything can happen next. Save your money. Stay healthy. And work everyday towards your goal.