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So it's another day to face some reality based on my experiences. People usually ask me why do I so openly write or talk about my experiences? Why do I trust people with my secrets? That's because if my experience can save you from some hardships of life then why not? I don't want anybody to experience the same thing as I experienced. I will die one day and then nothing will matter but if through my experiences you all get a bit of guidance then what's the  harm?

This blog is especially for the people who are away from home to work or to study. Whenever you decide to move to a new city first always find some trust worthy contacts. Always! Also make sure you have enough money saved in your account to use up if things go wrong. Money is the only thing that saves you ultimately in every condition. In my case after a whole year of persuading parents to send me to different city to work my parents sent me only after a third person told them to do so. This irked me because my parents believed that third person more than me. So finally I moved to Gurugram but I had no money. Since my parents were sending me so I thought they will help me for the first month. Before going to Gurugram a friend from the same place told me that she and I will stay together because why stay alone when you have a friend? On reaching Gurugram we had to submit rent and security, half of which she had to pay and the rest I had to pay. But when I called my parents for this they simply backed out and told me to ask somebody else for money. I had to pay rent anyhow so I contacted that third person again and she helped but she was herself shocked with the attitude of my parents. And on the first day in different city I had debts on my head. After few months in the city my flat mate decided to quit her job and move to other place. I also thought of finding some cheaper place then. But that third person offered me to stay at her home as she also lived alone and any company would be better. Decided to stay at her place I packed all my stuff ready to move out next day but she called me late at night and said things can't go as planned and she was sorry. Now I had a job but nowhere to stay. Couldn't have called my parents because obviously I didn't want to trouble them, after panicking for hours I decide to book a room at OYO as I had my salary for the month in my hand and OYO was the cheapest option. I moved to OYO. Took off from office for the next two days to contemplate what I will be doing. But spent both the days locked up in the room thinking why people dump me in the end? Kept ordering maggie for every meal(again cheapest option). Talked to a friend on phone and she offered her place to stay. 

Moved to her place next day after office. Worried to the core, I thought of sharing with her and finding a way out, but she said she has to go out after office for something urgent and she will be late. She also asked me to not wait for her for dinner. I ate two chapatis there after endlessly eating noodles for days. I decide to stay up for her but didn't realize when I dozed off. She came late and later I got to know she was out for a movie. I moved back again to another OYO and I was getting miserable. Every day was hard. I would start crying at anytime and any where. So finally I decided to quit and move back to my own town meanwhile I got a liver infection and situations worsened. I took medicines, prayed, cleared my debts and moved back to home. My parents still doesn't know any bit of it. And it's been two years now. This memory still haunts me. But I just thank God he kept me safe. 

Moral of the story- Do not depend on anyone, earn for yourself and save for your self, trust your self, believe on people's actions not words, if you are not doing any harm to anyone then God will always be with you.