Marriage is one of the biggest day in everyone's life. Not just because they find their soulmate but also they life is all about to change now, they are getting a new family new relations new responsibilities. Yes both bride and groom are going to start a new life. Everybody talks about marriage every one tells the benefits or you can say the neccessity of getting married. For a Groom the nessessity to get married is to get a partner who can take care of him and his family, who can cook for him, who can carry on the lineage of his family. And for a groom the neccissity of getting marriage is getting a support for lifelong, for maintaining the reputation of the family. But no one talks about the pressure before getting married.. The pressure from family, friends. society and relative.. According to this society if a women got graduated she is eligible for marriage and if a man got job then he is eligible for marriage. Everyone start pressurizing the men and women if the family starts understanding their children for  delaying their marriage the relatives will start pressurizing the parent of the bride and groom and start manipulating the family and the icing on cake is when a friend of you who already got married will also start asking questions regarding your marriage delay. It's not always about the dreams and goals only which this society keeps on taunting you about. Its about the will of the Men and women that whether they are willing or not. Marriage is not only about getting a partner or throwing a big reception to show off the whole world how grandly you are celebrating your togetherness but its about the responsibilities. The most important thing is are the bride and the groom ready to take this responsibility are they really wanted to be together because this togetherness is not only for a day or a week or an year its for lifetime. Even the government has an age limit after which a girl or a boy can get married but did'int mention the age limit after which you can't get married. This society have to understand that mental pressure is also a kind of torture. So please let the Groom and the Bride decide when they want to get married and don't worry whenever they will be ready or their new journey unfortunately or fortunately they will definitely inform you.