forgiveness is when you no longer let yourself get hurt by others , you don't hold any bad feelings or grudge towards the person. In this process of forgiving someone it takes a great impact on you . Forgiving a person who has hurt you is the most difficult and emotion and process you go through but once you do it you can easily move on past it for bigger better things in life . But you never forget it and learn the lesson from it , you can never let that person put you in the same situation again.
this is the precious life lesson I have learnt in my life. holding grudge against people is the easiest task . But nothing good will come out of the enmity. The sadness , anger and hurt will keep eating you till the end. so try and move on just forgive them out of empathy make yourself understand that humans make mistake its okay . And do not give them another chance to let you down . just detach yourself from the pain as its not your fault.
one incident that happened to me one of my friends made me look like a fool in front of all the other friends and made fun of me insulted me . it hurt me pretty bad i was so scared of friendships had trust issues i couldn't forgive her or move on .but eventually i did and i feel so free and relaxed but i would never let the history repeat i would never forget it .
recently i saw a case of an accident in some foreign country. A man in his 40s was killed in car crash by a teen boy's fault who was rash driving . I watched the scene of court where the judge was ruling out the punishment for the teen and sending him to jail. The father of the man who died nearly in this 70s came forward and hugged the teen and said “I forgive you” . the teen boy started crying so bad and he apologized sincerely to the old man and the family . The uncle said to him “ I see my boy in you, so learn from your mistake and become a good man just how my son was I am sure he would have forgiven you if he was alive" . I got goosebumps when I heard that , how can someone be that courageous I was so taken a back my the old man . I feel he must have seen so manY things and situation in life which gave him strength to forgive someone like that and give them a second chance in life . Different people see things differently its all perspective and opinions I really get so intimidated when I see or hear such emotional things it gives me a unique side of life to look and admire at
