HEY EVERYONE!
DOES HAVING STANDARDS MEANS BEING NARCISSIST OR KNOWING SELF WORTH ?
having standards doesn't mean being narcissist in my opinion ,many people think that having certain standards is totally wrong but its not the thing.
people who sets standards are simply the ones that knows what they really wants in a relationship .
some people knows what they wants and communicates about their real expectations and needs whereas some expects others to understand by themselves
The same way , some can understand you're expectations themselves just by the actions ,without any communications about it
but not everyone has the ability to understand youre needs and expectations themselves
THERE IS THE NEED FOR THE CLEAR AND MATURED COMMUNICATION
theres many people that sacrifices things for their loved ones but not everyones the same
everyone has different way of showing their love
not anyone and everyone will fit in someone's standards but that doesn't mean they should not have standards
people wait for the right person that met their standards but some gets into relationships just like that and when they know that person doesn't meet their expectations or standards they eventually go apart
standards are not just about the other persons earning or their wealth its also about the way the care about the other person, the little things they does for the other ones ,the effort they put in.
our whole life aint a k-drama but the standards we set by watching them are little too high sometimes
there are practical people too
calling a person narcissist who has high standards are totally wrong
they don't get into relationships that doesn't meet their expectations and get disappointed or gives hope to the other person. instead they wait for the right one!
being a narcissist is totally different from being a person that has standards ,having a unhealthy selfish obsession towards themselves and only their needs are the people who are called narcissist
respect other peoples expectations and if u cant give them the basic thing they expect like time r making them feel prioritized
then dont give them hope .
k drama boyfriends are the ideal standards . its the sweet little things that are labelled as standards , know better about things before blaming someone.
EVERYONE HAS THEIR HARDSHIPS!
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