We have in Era where this splitting up words seems very normal in social media or if it comes from film industry or some renowned personality but we all know in normal indian middle class society this is not as normal as it looks because marriage is consider as our culture we use to believe in life long relationship even our religions says that marriage is for seven lives we grow up with this teachings and thinking and we somehow manage to behave ok or normal when we see someone splitting up in good terms but deep inside we don't consider it right and if it's long relationships like nowadays it's happening in film industry or in social media people announces their split up after 10 years 15 years 20 years of marriage. My mind don't accept this honestly because if relationship is so long we love each other we trust each other we understand each other than why we are splitting and if still we are splitting than definitely we are lying to people or ourselves that we are in good terms but parting our ways please don't create wrong examples tell the truth or accept the truth that you got bored you are not interested in each other you don't trust each other or maybe one of you cheated honestly this is the reality of marriages of film industry although I am not against of splitting up thing if relationship is abusive or whatever the reason a person has but my point is it should be true don't fake it or present a bad example to the generation. we are living in a country where people sacrifice and  do lot of adjustments for marriages. To make their marriage successful our generation should look upon that but unfortunately they are looking upon this film industry who fakes everything even love and relationships. This article is not about film industry I am actually taking about splitting up in marriage just gave an bad example now I want to share different opinion about this too. In normal middle class homes there are people who actually got stuck in wrong relationships but due to society due to family or sometimes their kids or maybe sometimes their own fear don't let them take decision about their marriage and they keep going like that not happy not living their own life not getting any love respect or even trust still manage to keep going but deep down they want love care and I think evey person in the world deserves that everyday they must had feeling that they should leave everything for their self their own self but than those so called restrictions that mind must have entangle them in their own created  chains.they don't know how to break those chains.they are stuck those people actually need and actually deserve happiness in life and no lecture no social media messages or live for yourself kind of videos or life lessons will  help them. Honestly I myself don't know how to help such people. Why living with life partner is so important.  A man or a woman cudnt survive alone really?????? You don't love the person you are not able to respect that person than how you are suppose to live your entire life with that person just because your family wants your society wants.  you are living your life or their's. Dont let anyone control your life their is no afterlife you have seen you have just one life live it for yourself you deserve happiness you can think about yourself. Being selfish for your self is not bad I think if your actions are good and for your happiness only this is the solution  i have otherwise I really don't know splitting up in marriage is right or wrong if there is love there trust everything you want than why splitting up and if nothing is there than why to be together for someone else.

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Konica