Published Jul 21, 2021
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Feminism - Perception Vs Reality....

Published Jul 21, 2021
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In today's modern Era we use new vocabulary here new words like feminism. But what I feel is feminism women empowerment is creating perception among people that women are week they need help women are getting harrased or exploited mentally physically financially even from many years or decades. But truth is something else I feel. though there is exploitation there is harassment but not like these feminists or women empowerment flag holders  presenting today. Let me tell you why I feel like this . I often saw videos social media messages about feminism and women that Indian culture exploits women with its traditions and society norms like dowry,child marriage,   sexual exploitation after marriages and so on. Ok first of all all of these are not part of Indian culture these are part of society traditions society created it they are not inherited from Vedas or granths. So these are created by people maybe man or women so please don't say it that they are part of Indian traditions or culture. Our culture always use to honour women our heritage and histor  shows that people fight for women's honour and even die for it. So please don't spoil your own culture or heritage with such fake perception women are already empowered and no need any power they can do whatever a human created by God can do. If  there is problem that  problem exist in society problem is in mindset problem is in politics against this topic problem lies in laws for women and problem lies in education and upbringing . Change yourself evrything will be change if women is not safe in society than that is not because of culture that is because humanity is not going right.one other perception I feel is this equality version that male female needs to get equal rights but when  its time to get privileges  of being women than we women never thought about equality. Noone can slap or touch women in public but women slaps a man . Women got the right to sit in public transports separately no man is allowed there if someone does that we start judging or even fighting and thinks that we are fighting for our right ok fighting for your right is every humans right it's not just created for women. I sm   speaking so clearly being a women because I definitely not agree with this all knowingly unknowingly I might have taken all the privileges women got in our society but I never said that we need to be equal to man then .. if we are getting privileges than we are already better trying to be equal to men  will lower down our position ladies understand. Recently I read about a case where a girl filed a case against a man of being abusive on road and fight was just because of some minor issue and that girl lodges complaint against that man . 5 years , job, respect of that person gone because of that girl and girl was studying in abroad and not even present in case hearings. This is something really hurts every human has the right to live a good life and you are spoiling someone's life and living your good life doesn't make you empowered and strong women you are committing sin. So there are lot of stories like that all I wanted to convey is stick to humanity and stick to your own strength don't fall into these traps of being developed and modern and try to be equal and don't use these words feminism and women empowerment you are already strong it lies within you. If this thing keep on growing that then one day no men will support or stand beside or with you and they will start some menism or men empowerment and we will lose our privileges because they know we are better are are strong we can give birth to new life not them we don't dand equality we demand equity believe in your strength and stick to humanity as compare to feminism humanity will be better trust me ..although this is all my thoughts you can disagree with me no issues but expression of thoughts is my right so I did it but not meant to hurt anyone's feelings so sorry about that maybe some women had faced something very bad or worse in life that they can never accept these thoughts but what I want to say is if anything bad happens in your life by men than that's because of lack of humanity in a person not because you are weak or you didn't get equal rights. Corect me if I am wrong. This is all I wanted to convey 

Thanks 

Regards Konica 

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atanu.ray 7/21/21, 5:41 AM
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faiz.shaikh 7/21/21, 5:48 AM
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creativeoperator 7/21/21, 6:06 AM
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theteenagertalks 7/21/21, 7:31 AM
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Totally agree. Feminism has taken a wrong meaning recently.
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