We all people have different different skills and knowledge and we all are different. We should just look inside us just need to find out in which things we are expert. We just need to find ourselves and we just need to find our potential. We are enough in ourselves. We have seen most of the time people use to compare themselves with other and shows down to themselves. This is very demotivating things we use to do for ourselves. We decreases our moral by comparing ourselves with others. We don't know our worth still. Whenever we see someone doing great we fell jealous and we disappointed ourselves only because someone has done something better then him or her. The elders start comparing themselves with other people like if someone has achieved something great like a great job, a great house and a great life so other people start feeling jealous by that guy why don't they do hard work for getting success instead of doing hard work he or she start feeling jealous by that person. We shouldn't do that if someone has achieved something better so we should appreciate him and try to do a little bit better than him so that when he or she got succeed so at that time other people also appreciate him instead of feeling jealous or by hating him or her. 

Parents most of the time compare his or her child to other children. Why do they do that? By doing such kind of things they decreases their child moral and calling them fool or a failure makes them nothing to do good ahead in life. In class room if a child got first position than the other parents start blaming their child that you don't study  you are so bad you are not my child , we can't control you now , you can't achieve anything in your life and many other words like this by which the child moral got decreases and sometimes they committed suicide, the child got too much depressed by his family he was having peer pressure so he or she took wrong step. Not only coming first in class makes us brilliant may be someone has interest on other things and he wants to do something elses. We try do understand ourselves and our potential. First we should know that we are special not for other's but for us we are very special and we need to find out our worth because when you know your worth then you know yourself.