Gossip is the most common thing or habit and for sure everyone had experienced that in their daily life. Knowingly and unknowingly everyone become its part. Some people enjoy that and some just listen. Sometimes, people won't even realise that they are doing it. The worst part is the most people enjoy it; they don't think they are being judgmental and see gossiping as harmless. They just love the excitement of hearing juicy rumours about those around them and passing them on- then getting a reaction.
Regardless, spreading gossip preys on our ego: we do it to try to feel good about ourselves; to feel superior to others. It's often judgmental, and most judgements stem from hatred, which is a low vibrational state that will only lead to you inviting unpleasant experience into your life.
You may have experienced that sometimes you just did that unintentionally but the results shocked you and remind you of what happened in the past. As we've already established, every thought and word holds a powerful vibration. When we negatively discuss others, we're sending negative energy out into the universe. As a result, This lower our vibration, resulting in toxic events and that reproduce ill feelings. Ayurveda, the ancient Indian medical system, says gossiping affects some of our energy centres, known chakras. This actively restricts us from ascending to higher vibrational states.
Gossiping become social adaptability when everyone starts to do a little more and that becomes a habit. Yet everyone knows they wouldn't like it if they were the subject of gossip.
So distance yourself from conversations about others, or try to direct the discussion to something more positive. You'll notice that more often or not, people who spend their time gossiping are the ones who seem to complain or find comfort in misery. If you join them in their habits, you'll gradually become disillusioned with life too. So just try to stay away from all that drama.
I have learned to avoid it at all with my experience. Once I was doing such things but when thing returned to me as results I observed that don't take part in that field. Otherwise, you'll lose your comfort, joy, peace. Sometimes you need to understand if someone is saying something negative about someone. There must be a reason and that is different for others. That person never talks about the positive side of that person. That happened many times. They are saying just to satisfy their ego, make sure that you only take part when there is something positive or informative.
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