Human mind is the source of all types of emotions and perception about every phase of life . It also helps to create a certain level of aura around an individual depending upon one’s thought process and the intensity of one’s focus upon a certain phase in the journey of life. Every emotion or feeling arising within oneself is an energy which is portrayed in action or through body language. Even every event occurring in life leaves an impression in our sub conscious mind. If we take the event of marriage, then a certain type of individuals perceive this pious event to be a medium to indulge in some type intimacy in physical level and objectifying the physical existence of feminity. As a result it has become a general impression to a certain level which has downgraded the general mindset of people. In our so called modern  society where there is no time to explore our true self, we have voluntarily overlooked the true purpose of marriage which is more of emotional intimacy and as a matter of fact it also makes us as  “ Humans “ more civilised than any other living species in our planet. We as a developed and civilised species in our planet , have forgotten our true purpose of life and downgraded our thought process and lifestyle to such a level that it doesn’t give a positive impression to the younger generation. It’s also true that every section of society have their own share of “needs” and “wants”, but it depends upon an individual to understand the thin line between them and know the difference between them. If we as humans do not understand the reason for our existence and always be a slave of our senses and take an important event like Marriage for granted then there is a window of doubt of us being different from any animal. To maintain a healthy society and to know the true meaning or understanding the true meaning of every phase or event in life there has to be an honest initiative to know and aknowledge the true meaning of our existence and the purpose of our existence. We as humans have the trait of either love someone or being loved someone. On a long run marriage being an integral part of human life needs to have an essence of true love, understanding, patience and transparancy with our spouse for a successfull and happy married life.