Hi friends,

            Actually there very vast difference about what women wants when she says freedom and what actually world or men think usually. All women after marriage they are seeking for a freedom within the family and not a freedom from the family. Have anyone asked a women what is their biggest fear in their life. Most of the answer will losing their family and not thinking about their self.

They are searching for “I” within the “ We” circle. She wants the freedom of choice, decision making, polity etc.If she decides on her own it becomes the blaming reason for everything. Always they give a “Women” tag only if she gets married or have akids. Those who dont want to marry, divorcee, want to be self reliant , or someone who is single mother are always not categorised under Women category by this so called society.

This happens not only in rural areas also in busy cities. If you are a single parent and you alone raising the kid even in Bangalore like city is not so good in many ways.this always wants1 everyone married and its big no for women without any relationship.

For example, if the women is divorced and she is the one who takes care of her child , even if she is in good position and well good enough to take care of the child, she has to face this cruel world. She always had to hear those questions being asked about her personal choice and her freedom. Even in school for admission she has to answer many question for her decision of moving on.

Young woman making a decision become a dangerous act.woman always needs freedom within the family and not a freedom from their families. If she is independent , all the blaming starts and she is in a hotbed for her choice.

It is better to be always clear before making any decision and its difficult to change your choice after you made your decision. Always teach your daughter to be self reliant, independent. Just think a lot before you think of getting married. These are must required one before getting married. 

Be financially independent, strong enough to face any critical issues. Always respect her, love her. Always ask her ideas and give her a chance to make a decision of her own. Dont blame her of for her decisions.

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