Hello all, I am here after a long gap and I am very glad to be again here. Actually, I am here to share something which I have been facing from my teenage till now. So, the bottom line of this blog is about parents. We all know that our parents expect us to give first priority to them, to me, its a great red flag, because we are always occupied with their actions, movements. We don't have space for thinking about ourselves that's avery big issue. It may actually kinda look genniune for parents expecting them but it spoils the lives of children. Its a great blockade to live their moment instead they are completely living a disguised life. 

First, break those stereotypes eventhough they brought us to the world, we are an individual not their soul or slave. It may look rude to those who have healthy relationship with their parents so if you want just stay out of this. 

One of the major toxic charcter which the parent has is a control over their children. If its a father who have this toxicity then family and house would be a literal hell for them. Because they are so greedy to have their wife and children as their shadows, they will find plaesure in that. Their safe zone is to keep us control and they will be content. If anyone of the family members break those blockades means they will break dowm immediately. They don't know how much they are illtreating even though they know it doesn't matter for. Their greatest pleasure is keeping under them. 

In some cases they wont their family members to mingle with others they would always be watched by that dominant father. Members can't take decisions on their owm and can't freely move inside the home because every move is being controlled by that dominant beast.

If the members start to raise questions against the dominat person they would trick us with their emotional blackmail. The person would make us to feel guilt for asking those questions and made us to feel bad to that extent they may sometimes put emotional drama. 

So not getting guilt and feeling bad is an important thing. If we start to raise their mistakes is really a good dare to do. Unless we will be their puppet forever. This kinda problem won't look as a big problem for the outsiders but its a actual hell for those people who are undergoing this. Because they made us into the state where we question ourselves about our behaviour. 

So be careful with those people, better come away from them. Thats a peaceful solution.