Published May 15, 2024
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Confidence Calls Me Mother ❤‍🩹

Published May 15, 2024
3 mins read
535 words

How are you y'll, I hope you guys are pink of your health and doing good! 

Every one in their life has been insecure about something or the other, it can be there face, body, status and everything

When I was a child I have been insecure for having dark skin even though people called me pretty still I was called black beauty but I can't still take off my mind when people called my friend" beautiful " But not white beauty! 

Why is that so? Does white stand for pretty? Every time I look into the mirror I find my inner voice saying “I guess you need to get fair”

But now at this age I am confident about skin realizing that beauty comes from inside but not just the skin! 

Now I feel confident and every time I enter a room, every eyes are on me, not that I am beautiful but confident! 

There's a phrase that goes, "If you don't believe in yourself, why would anyone else believe in you?" Making anything in life a habit is the key to success. Practice something for more than twenty-three days, and it's said to become a habit. Seldom has anyone accomplished anything without having confidence in themselves. It's true that "faith can move mountains," and strong mental faculties are what unite effective and resilient performers. It is impossible to build mental toughness and endurance without self-belief. Never allow self-doubt to stand in your way. One does not attempt to persuade others since they have faith in themselves. One doesn't require the acceptance of others since they are happy with who they are. 

How Can Confidence Be Built? Nothing like achievement to boost confidence and self-worth. — Thomas Carlyle The first step to developing self-confidence is forgiving oneself. Making mistakes is a normal part of being human. You ought not to be hard on yourself for it. Recognize and pardon yourself. Treat yourself with kindness. Be kind with yourself. Don't be cruel or abusive to yourself. Bullies are disliked by all of us, and we encourage others to confront them. However, we frequently neglect to give ourselves the same advice. Instead of aiming for perfection, make your goals more reachable. If you have unrealistic goals, you will continually be setting yourself up for failure. For a week, compile a list of all your accomplishments. 

liberates you from self-doubt and is yours. Developing self-confidence may be daunting at first. It is crucial that you take stock of your past accomplishments. If you don't celebrate your accomplishments, you won't feel motivated to create and accomplish new objectives. Your confidence in yourself can be shaped or destroyed by the individuals you spend time with. When you are surrounded by negative individuals, you won't get the support and encouragement you need to be your best self, as opposed to when you are in healthy, positive connections. Never be scared to tell someone "no"! Saying no is perfectly OK if you genuinely don't want to do something or if you believe it is best for you. It's good to be assertive. defending oneself and residing in a positive atmosphere

So end with the quote"confidence calls me mommy "thank you love you all! ❤

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harish.j 5/15/24, 5:23 PM
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Feel the freshness of words in your first blog itself and we are there to support you keep sharing more
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pari.bohra 5/16/24, 9:02 AM
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Yes yes mommy you slay
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