Published Aug 10, 2022
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Responsible Parents - Gift From God

Published Aug 10, 2022
2 mins read
487 words

In this universe, everyone got a role to perform day-to-day activities. Fortunately, Parent got a role to provide their children with a good & healthy future. But do they responsible for it?

Role everyone can do, like the given job. But responsibility comes from love and care.

Recently,  we were reading more articles about the safety, illness, and abuse of children.

I loved the famous saying called  “Charity begins at Home”.

Yes! It all starts with home. We provided good food, shelter, clothes, quality education, and more. It's well and good. Are you also providing healthy environment and mental stability?
 

Here are my few key takeaways to our Indian parents, at least to consider,

  1. Your child didn't wish to be born, you had wished, So you are wholly responsible for everything.
  2. We are living in the technology revolution, child needs your nurture and support, not gadgets. Live fullest at the moment with your child.
  3. God has given a child as a fruit to add fruitfulness to your life. 
  4. Parents should not be a factor, for ending up with bad habits and even death.
  5. As everything starts from home, Nurture them with motivation and care with your love so that your child will spread the light of positivity to society.
  6. Charity, Social Behavior, and Ethics in life all started & seeded already in your home.
  7. More than the parents, Be a friend, Be a supporter, Be a  good comrade to your child.

Finally, I am ending up with one simple imaginary thought, but somehow it turned out to be true in most of our children's cases.

Parents are like Bicycle Wheels. Front Wheel is the father & Back Wheel is the Mother. And Child is seated in the cycle.
When Child rides cycle now , there will be perfect synchronisation.
Look, if any one of the wheels got damaged or removed due to fault, who will be going to affect in this situation? Undoubtedly, The child will be affected. So in parenting a child, both father and mother are important to the child.
From infant, toddler, adolescence till adult, both mother and father behavior gonna affect Child's physical, mental & social health.

If thoughts have intuition from anonymous kid,

Nights were scary, waiting for the sun to rise
Wanna escape from this fearful night,
I wished I loved to honor. What if they don't deserve it?
I wished I loved to live my life nice,
But Why I need do to?
I want to make them proud one day,
Even if they were not supporting my desires
I pretended I have all is only my parents,
but for them I am not the one.
Am I a blessing or a burden?
Will I bring pride or shame?

Love your child, Be supportive parents - If not they will be far ahead of your expectations.

Don't pretend you are doing great parenting. Sit with your child & let them share their struggles. Protect them with responsibility!

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thulasiram.ravi 8/11/22, 1:42 AM
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