I was in third class and I was really poor in my studies.
my parents used to feel bad for my studies but they never used to raise their hand.
So, to make me study they used to send me to the tuition near by my house.
The tuition teacher was very harsh and she used to beat me to make me study and days passes by, she made some of the higher school students make fun of my standards after few days I was so done with them and I got an idea that to stop going to tuition and to sit near a tree and study
my parents believed that I was going to tuition.
Days passed by and i was so used to study under the tree and play sometime and returned to home. I was so happy back then.
one fine day, an uncle who was observing me from past few days asked about my dad's name and inquire about me and told to my parents what I was actually doing.
This made my father angry and he came towards me and beat me so hard and cried a lot that I ruined this name.
After some time he came near me and told if you don't like to go to tuition, why don't to intimate me that thing.
And that was the moment I realized that I have a freedom to speak my opinion.
I became too close to my dad and I used to share my opinion and he used to suggest me the best path from that moment.
This changed my life. I used to study hard on my own, though my grades are not good my efforts were totally satisfied by my parents.
They used to ask my choices and preferences , what I like to do and what should be the best thing to do we used to discuss and made the decision for every part of my life from dresses to toys back at that moment.
Sometimes I used to feel shy and pretended that I forgot that thing when my parents raised that point in front of me to make fun of me.
and then after few years passed by , now I think its nothing to feel shy about that thing which changed my life in some way, because from that moment it really made my parents understood that I used to feel afraid to speak with them and they became to close , understood the thing and used to prefer my choice in my own life.
Moral: whatever it may be, just share your thoughts with your family and choose the best path in your life.