After days of nonstop hustle to learn a new skill, I felt taking a small break to balance both my passion and studies. So, I am back again with lots of words to share with you all.

Let me ask you a question,

Who is the last person to ask you that how are you? And how you respond to them.

It's been so many days since a person ask me how my life is going. So, i choose this topic. Answering this question with a smile, whether it's real or fake, still brings a comfortable pleasant feel to us.

How are you, how it's going are the best way to start a conversation with someone, who we met after a long time. It helps to understand their mood and communicate better. 

Let me tell you, why a simple how are you ? can feel precious…

When my brother, who became a father recently (new father) met me after long time, I asked him how are you. He replied, good with a smile, I felt that smile carries some pain and unsaid words behind it and so I asked him, how do you feel as a father?. 

That's the moment, I found the unspoken power of how are you in my life.

He literally cried and he said that it's necessary to be asked  by someone when you are a new father, and he shared his wise words to plan life to avoid unnecessary traumas in future.

A woman who wakes up 5:30 am in the morning, to make breakfast and lunch be ready before her son leaves home to college, and make a cup of coffee for her husband at the same time.We can say that she is the master of an art named multi-tasking and also balance work-life without any pressure.She never asked anything for her except  tv serial time. She don't like to take rest and so she used to clean the house alone everyday. She accepts mistake to save you from your father and we called her as “mother”.

Asking yourself is also important when you prefer self love. Between my busy schedule, I asked my self that how it's going in my life and I found that I should continue writing everyday to make myself happy and complete. 

So, ask ‘How are you’ as much as possible to be connected with people and to be a person who really cares.

Thankyou friends and I miss most of your blogs, which became very rare to see new one from you all, so write more and share more.