Hello friends I am here again to share my story but something different, story without any pronoun because it's common for both men and women…

Hope is powerful but when misplaced it can be the reason for someone's deepest pain, right? 

It's better to deliver a “NO” with kindness that helps the other person to move on without any confusion than mixed feelings.

A relationship with an unknown person starts with a casual hello or a smile, it may be at school, college, workspace, family party, bus stop,etc…

But not every people we met became our favourite person or a person whom we are waiting to acknowledge our efforts to be with them,

 so the Unintentional signs that they gave us is the reason for the excitement that makes us to imagine a life with them.

We will never forgot the smile on our face after hanging out with that person for the first time, it's the moment where we start falling for that person.

Our heart will decided to be around them always, which is the next step that make us more crazy for that one person, self doubts about ourself will make every nights sleepless.

Also the doubt that the other person may already in relationship with someone else is the biggest fear that create a hesitation to open up our love for that person.

At the same time, we may looking for a professional growth or a comeback in our personal life and so we start focusing on our self-growth and gradually the feelings will drain out as the other don't show off any interest after sometime.

After few years, we understood that love is about mutual effort and it's not forced emotion, we will start to respect their emotion and feelings and mentally prepared to accept “NO”  from the other person.

But, the other person don't know the pain that we suffering for a long time because of their false hope all the time and the sudden heart broken can create unwanted downfall in life and push us towards depression, damage our mental peace, etc.

We all should think that are we capable of converting our words into actions  before we assure anyone.

It's better to talk to the other person instead guessing by their messages , calls, gestures, at the early stages to avoid unwanted heartbreak and relationship problems.

Hope this blog will help to maintain a healthy relationship with your loved ones.

Love is not like the sun or moon,which are considered to be only one, It's everywhere, love all, be kind to everyone…

Thankyou.