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Don't Hurt Yourself, To Fit Where You Don't Belong

Published May 20, 2025
3 mins read
545 words

Hello friends, Harish.J here with my new blog, I don't have that much time as I am having my semester exam next month and now I am having model exam but I try to read all your blogs and share few interesting blogs with you all. 

I am trying to write on different topics, so I need your help to figure out that which kind of blog is suitable for me to share my thoughts clearly to you all, share your views on my recent topics.

Today's topic is about choosing the right career after our college.

I decided to discuss this topic after having a fun-filled conversation with my brother and also my own experience at my college.

After his 10th std result, my brother asked me that which group will he choose for his higher studies. 

I asked him what he want to do in his life, he had no clue…

Even I too don't know, what I am going to do at that stage, but it's necessary to decide that now itself so that he can choose his path right from his 11 std.

 I told him to choose any one of his interest that let him loves his work and never felt something was missing. So he told me again that I don't have any kind of interest in anything.

Now it will be a great problem in future if I choose any one group for him, so I shared my recent experience during my placement training. And now I am going to share it with you all.

One fine day, we all enjoyed till that evening but suddenly there was a circular notice from principal sir and our placement trainer asked a girl to read it out…

She mentioned three of our friends name, and said that this three people got selected for upcoming placement drive, for an interview, next month and everybody was quite and had no clues that why we are not selected. 

We moved to placement cell and asked what are the criteria to be selected for this interview and then they said that the candidate should have 8.5 and above cgpa and 80% in both 10th and 12 th class.

So I came to know that I missed that opportunity by my 10th and 12th class. What should I do now, we can't turn back our clock right, so I was depressed for two days that why I can't make it when my friends can…

And calm down myself that I am not decided to study engineering and I am not interested in developer role, I don't want to learn programming languages, but that company was only for web developers. So why should I feel for what I don't want to, so I celebrate for my friends and also helped them to practice group discussion and one on one Q&A session. 

So brother, choose your group with a future plans if you don't have any plans till now, just find what you don't want to do in your life…

Because, finding where we don't fit will  save our entire future or else each and every day will be painful and we will regret that we missed our chance to make what we really made for…

Thankyou.

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the_little_treasure 5/20/25, 7:41 AM
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This is something really different and amazing I have read , because most of the time people advise to find what we love. So we never really paid attention to what we don't like. Indeed it can save a lots of time and burden, making the selection process smooth. Nice ! You'll get what you truly deserve. Keep working.
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the_little_treasure 5/20/25, 7:42 AM
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It's not always that your 10th/12th marks matter. It depends om the hiring company as well. Because when I got placed through placement drive, no body asked my marks, just my skills mattered. So work on that bro. Best of luck
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