Hello everyone!! As I already shared my wonderful incident in my life in the previous blog and I considered it as wonderful because I felt it so but I'm going to share another incident, but I don't decide it. now your role comes into play to decide. CHAL-BTECH-Basically we felt that one thing when we were promoted to the second year, we consider ourselves as a senior like that I too feel in the same way. We all know how ragging plays a crucial role in the BTech. Our batch is ready to roar, It's around 5 p.m where all faculty members completely left the college so as usual junior girls roaming in the college. My friend called one girl and he started ragging, in the same way, another two friends of my batch selected their respected juniors and started chit-chatting. I'm a shy guy in my batch so I started searching for juniors. finally, I got one with dimple and I immediately called her, Here comes the first question what is your SD? she smiled and I again asked the same question, she again smiled and I thought that she felt for me, I too smiled in the same way and I questioned why are you smiling?-she replied, "what do you want brother?". I shocked and told her that you don't call seniors as a brother just call me “sir”…She gently replied “that is ok. but if I'm senior to you then what will you do? then I understand the situation and I simply said sorry sister and leaving then she called and ordered, “Don't call me sister just call me mam”. Our story started like that. After few days, I tried very hard and got her name then I started searching her name on social media. Finally, I got her Instagram I'd and sent a request. Thereafter, We started chatting but I know that it won't work but I expressed my feelings. On her farewell day, I dedicated one poem to her-She impressed and said one thing only why don't you born one year earlier- I loved the way she left me and she was the real crush to me. Likewise in every person's life, there were many crushes but a real crush is different from the first crush and the difference is that the first crush are those whom we remember till our last breath and real crush are those from whom we learned the life So respect them as long as you can…--Gowtham