hey everyone! this is my fourth blog, if you haven't seen my older writings please go and have a look!

Whatever I am going to write is just my thoughts and a tincture of my personal experience. This is NOT a professional advice and I do not intend to hurt or demotivate anyone, hope you would like it!

So let's get to talking, first of all don't get me wrong I'm not saying that you shouldn't follow your dreams but instead I'm asking “For how long?” See chasing you dream is the stuff everyone would like, everyone like to do something which they like the most and make money out of it and live the life they've dreamt of. But the main question is what if you are failing at it from long time, and it doesn't matter how hard you trying but you're not able to pull off the thing and stuck in your life.

It's very easy to say “Never Give Up” but until when? This line is not suitable for everybody in the world, you just can't keep struggling with your dreams and keep putting everything aside. This is not how life works as far as I know. With all the things you want in your life in the coming future, there's a lot of things which you have to deal with while being in present. You have your family, yourself, and a lot more thing which you have to run and take care of but you can't just because you're focused on your dreams which is good thing but up to some limit and after that it start to harm you.

There are only two circumstances under which you can keep chasing it, until you get it no matter how many years you go after it, one is you're from a rich family and you have a source of income that doesn't demand your blood and sweat, then you can chase and become successful in the field you want to because you're never worried about the resources of the present. Second is, your financial condition is so bad that until and unless you to don't do something in your life you just can't be alive, then it is a do or die situation, either you chase it and get it otherwise just compromise with your life. So the category in which the line “Never Give Up" doesn't seem real is the middle class, who have a little to live happy life but they just can't afford things which takes time to start minting money for them.

So if you belong to this category and to which most of us belong, then give your hardest and purest effort towards your dream and try to achieve it while you still have the chance because we don't have that much resources to put on our dreams, instead we're the resource for our families, if we're trying to get something we only got limited number of years after that you'd have to have your heart broken and leave your dreams behind and move on. All that which I mentioned is a mere thought of my mind and some personal hurt, I do not intend to hurt someone by this. Peace.

BS