We all have questions like this in our mind but the actual sad and hurting thing is that when your dream didn't come true. We all have different dreams and ideal life and we're dreaming about from so long and sometimes it didn't turn out the way we want.
Don't worry everyone has problems in their life but half of your problems redu es when you know how to deal with it and calm yourself down.
I may not know what your actual problem is but i can share points that are going to help you in such a way that you can't think of it ever.
This is the best favor you can ever do to yourself self let me tell you how.
Do you know half of your pain relieves when you share it with someone writing diary/journaling is the same thing don't share it with someone except god . Write everything that has happened to you or write what kind of life you want. Make sure keep your diary personal don't give it to someone to read.
2.Leave everything on god
Don't worry for anything leave everything on god whatever destined for you will come to your way no matter if its under the mountains.
So don't worry that people will not let you achieve what you desperately want just pray to god share&ask to ease your path.
Remember prayer can change your life.
3.Healthy food
Healthy food = healthy body= healthy mind.
The more healthy you're the more healthy your thinking will be and the more positive things will come to your way trust me.
Don't take it as joke just work on yourself and make it better everyday.
4. Humor
I know its difficult to smile on those such times in our life but if you got this then you'll be happier than ever.
What is humor ?
Why should we laugh ?
How can we practice it daily ?
"Laughing is the best medicine"
Norwegian research studies shows that people who laugh more or happy people tend to live longer life especially in women.
Study yourself what makes you happy and drives you to laugh every single day.
Watch standup comedy shows or whatever that makes you laugh hard or crack normal jokes remember when i say jokes it doesn't mean humiliating someone or insult them. Don't make someone's fun otherwise one day you yourself find a joke only. I know its sounds very harsh & bitter but its truth.