You will always find people talking about love breakup but what about friendship breakup? Bruh this thing hurts the most. Imagine, you got someone in your life with whom you have imagined almost everything from how you are gonna dress up for their wedding to how you will introduce them to your partner. But suddenly your bond began to fade. Now, when you open Spotify or listen to the radio the song “We don’t talk anymore” reminds you of them. This thing hurts the most. Even today when something good or bad happens in your life you want to tell them but they are no longer the same. The nickname, the conservation, the laughter, and the secrets which you both had shared in past still made you smile but the moment you realised that the bond is no longer the same, u got shattered.
How strange it is? The journey of becoming best friends with strangers and then turning into strangers with memories.From talking every day to rarely, to never an amazing bond just fades away.
No matter how much you try to forget everything but you just can't because people leave, and memories don't. The fact is you can delete the chats, and the photos but not the memories. But believe me, one day their absence will not bother you.
I will not say that people come and go because I know how badly it hurts when your best friend turned into a stranger. I know how it feels when you want to text them badly but can't because your last conservation is still incomplete. I know how it feels when your best friend leaves without even saying goodbye. I know how it feels when your best friend leaves even without telling you what was your fault.
But I know this too that sometimes removes people from our lives because he wants something best for us. I think it is rightly said, “Sometimes we miss the memories and not the person”. So, don't stop your life for that one friend. Live, land life goes on with or without them.
But if at some point in life in future you got a chance to talk with your friend then don't forget to tell them how badly you were broken when they left you. And dare to ask them what was your mistake. But till then stop blaming yourself. Live your life to the fullest. Many new surprises and adventures are still waiting for you, my friend. :)
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