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Ikigai: Finding Your Reason For Being, The Desi Way- Part I

Published Dec 21, 2023
3 mins read
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Imagine a life filled with purpose, joy, and zest, even as the years roll by. Sounds like a Bollywood dream, right? Well, in the heart of Japan, on the sunshine-soaked island of Okinawa, this dream is a reality for many. Their secret? Ikigai, is a philosophy that means "a reason for being".

But Ikigai isn't just some fancy Japanese word – it's a practical guide to unlocking a fulfilling life, no matter your age or background. And guess what? You don't need to pack your bags for Okinawa to find your Ikigai. All you need is a curious mind and a dash of desi wisdom! Finding Your Intersection:

At the heart of Ikigai lies a powerful diagram, a Venn diagram of sorts, where four circles intersect:

  • What you love: This is your passion, the things that make your heart sing. It could be anything from baking sourdough bread to building robots, writing poetry to playing the tabla.
  • What you're good at: These are your skills and talents, the things you excel at without breaking a sweat. Maybe you have a knack for fixing things, a way with words, or a natural talent for connecting with people.
  • What the world needs: This is about contributing to something bigger than yourself, making a difference in the world. It could be through your work, your hobbies, or simply by being a kind and compassionate person.
  • What you can be paid for: This is about making a living, but not just any living. It's about finding a way to monetize your passion and skills while contributing to something meaningful.
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Let's dive into the heart of the book "Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life" and discover some easy-to-digest, hinglish-flavored Ikigai hacks:

1. Slow Down, Yaar!

Remember that time you gulped down that steaming cup of chai before it cooled? Missed the delicious aroma, didn't you? The same goes for life. Rushing through the days is like chugging chai without savoring the taste. Take it slow, "chill maar" (chill out), and appreciate the little things. Life isn't a race, it's a beautiful journey, so "thoda thamke chalte hain!" (Let's walk a little slower!)

2. Retire from Boredom, Not Passion!

Picture yourself in your rocking chair, reminiscing about the days you spent passionate about painting, writing, or that quirky pottery hobby. Don't let retirement steal your spark! Keep doing what makes your soul dance, even if it's just for your grandkids or the neighborhood pups. Find ways to keep your Ikigai alive, because as they say, "jahaan chah wahan raasta" (where there's a will, there's a way)!

3. Hara Hachi Bu: Fill Your Life, Not Your Stomach!

We all know the feeling of overindulging at that Diwali feast. But guess what? Eating till you burst isn't doing your body any favors. The Okinawans have a simple rule: "hara hachi bu", which means eating until you're 80% full. This not only keeps your body happy but also leaves space for more delicious jalebis! (Just kidding... well, sort of!)

4. Yaar Log, Pyaar Ki Dawa!

Surround yourself with good friends, the kind who make you laugh till your sides ache. Laughter is the best medicine, and good company is the best tonic. Remember those crazy college nights spent cracking jokes and sharing dreams? Reconnect with those friendships, make new ones, and let the "pyaar ki dawa" (love's medicine) work its magic!

5. Birthday Wish: Fit and Fine!

No, we're not talking about six-pack abs (unless that's your Ikigai, then go for it!). But even a brisk "chak de phek" (walk) around the block can make a difference. Exercise keeps your body happy, your mind sharp, and your "josh" (enthusiasm) high. You might even feel like you're 20 again (minus the bad dancing, we hope!).

Don't forget to read PART 2.

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