Humans, in general, are driven by their desire to live a better life. We are often ready to work twenty-four seven to make our life better. But the real question is how far will you go to make your life better?  

We dream about living a luxurious life with a big house, car, food and every material thing that would make our life look grand and cosy. We all want a comfortable life. As long as you don't hurt people around you for your dream life, it doesn't matter at all. But when you go beyond that and hurt people, betray them and leave them desperate, slow down buddy, you are making a wrong choice and it is not worth it. 

In everyone's life, there will be a day when you sit back and look at the life you lived. Imagine sitting in a comfortable chair in your room near the window, sipping your favourite beverage. Looking out of the window you see the autumn leaves falling and you remember the things you did in life, to be where you are now. You see the faces of all people you have met in your entire life like a PowerPoint presentation in front of you. Imagine that moment. Close your eyes and live it for a minute. 

What do you feel?

There are two possibilities; either you will be so contemptuous that you did all you did or you regret that you did all you did. 

We are humans. And it is true that “To err is human”. We make a lot of mistakes. We lie. We cheat. We betray. We let down people. But life always gives us a chance to make everything better even when we feel like we are all messed up. We just have to focus and grab that opportunity. 

We cannot change what we did in the past, because the past is the past. But we can do things that could make us feel good about the past. We are not supposed to carry the bag of regrets on our shoulders, we have to let it go when the time is right and when we are ready. 

Don't ask why they did this to me? Don't think What if I did that instead of this?

 Life is a process. You cannot change what you did and what people did to you. What you did is your choice and what they did is their choice. All you can do is to accept and keep going forward. 

Accept your flaws
Accept your mistakes. 
Accept your past. 
And 
Accept the way your life is and enjoy it.