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This blog is about the most prevelant and infamous behaviour of young children, not listening to their parents.
Whose fault do you think there is? Well each defendant blames the other one. It might seem weird that I, myself being 16 years old and hence of the age, explaining what I do! Well, my case is different because my parents are different. So I don't disobey them. Why? Because they don't order me to do anything at all. They give me enough freedom to do anything I want to with the assets available. I do have a personal phone but I don't use social sites. I go outside with my friends to do anything I want to, but never do any wrong things, you know those. When I compare myself with others, I find it weird that others don't behave the way I do.
So, what makes my case different? Me or my parents? Well, both. My parents don't always forbid me to do anything I like to, and in return I never disobey them. The good relation between parents and children depends on both of their attitude towards the other.
Children don't like to do what their parents want them to do because they think that have just got nothing to do but to cage them. They always want to do what is not expected from them and them the parents have to stop them from doing so. But what else can the children do? They have got nothing else to do.
Children do what is wrong because they know less about life. Wrong things are easy to learn, but good things have to be taught. They have never been taught the good things, but have always been stopped from doing the wrong things. And they keep doing those because it seems good for them. Parents give them a mobile phone and don't tell them what to do. When they start using it wrongly, they are stopped. If initially they were told what should be done with it, why would they then use it otherwise? They are given freedom to do what they do, but are not told actually what to do. And when they misuse their freedom, they are again stopped. Just like before, if they were initially told how they could use their freedom for useful things, they would not use it otherwise. This is generally because the parents themselves were not properly handled in their childhood and hence do the same to their children. This cycle is created due to illiteracy.
But, are the youngsters the poor victims? Not really. They are to be equally accused for not listening to a single thing told to them. Well, they just need motivation which mostly comes from one self. The problem is, they don't know what to do and whatever it is, where to start form.
It's never to late to start over.
And after all they have just started to live their lives, how come they be late? Just start changing or more precisely, improving things one by one. Try not to be short tempered, listening to parents and teachers and no doing what they know is wrong. Yes, most of the times youngsters do what they know is wrong just due to the feeling of revenge, a revenge from all of them who try to limit them.
Its seems to be really difficult to forcibly obey and listen to them who are actually our enemies. But as soon as both understand each other's point of view, I bet both will regret for what they had been doing.
So much have I writtenπ . Sorry for that, and I sincerely thank you for reading till the last.
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